Already heard aboutthe social pressure that society exerts on women?Probably! But,
do you understand it? Do you feel it? Do you notice it?
Most of us know that women experience inequalities.
The question is which ones, and how do these manifest on us? These disparities are not only distinguished by visible discrepancies, but an integral imbalance also hides behind…
With the aim of a better world for us, women :
We must distinguish, notice, and define all kinds of pressure to which we are confronted with, this society has made these phenomena central to the functioning of the system, so it’s difficult, even for us women, to realize all the ramifications and repercussions of this mechanism.
Let’s start by listing the categories of pressure that the system has implemented :
It can be :
Household pressure :
making tasks, good organization, good management, being regular, judicious, economical, careful, responsible, exemplary
Family pressure :
being present, listening, supportive, make a good education, communication, security, being loving, understanding, gentle, peaceful, caring, diplomatic, benevolent, protective
Beauty standards pressure :
being beautiful, healthy, sporty, presentable, feminine, clean, luminous, natural, refined, charismatic, delicate, harmonious
Professional pressure :
have seriousness, commitment, independence, being involved, meticulous, motivated, orderly, talented, focused, efficient, cultivated, diligent
Social pressure :
being understanding, sweet, kind, caring, respectful, smiling, attentive, lucid, tenacious, active, ambitious, conscientious, compassionate
Psychological pressure :
happy, stable, strong, realistic, resilient, courageous, humble, optimistic, free
CONSEQUENCES : isolation, burnout, fatigue, illness, difficulty in relationships, injustice, conflicts, violence, depression, guilt, loss of trust, failure, submersion, anxiety…
WE HAVE TO BE “PERFECT”
YOU JUST HAVE TO BE YOURSELF
being yourself is the only thing you need
Every woman is unique, with her own strengths, weaknesses, passions and challenges. Embracing and celebrating this singularity is a crucial step towards self-acceptance.
Your value does not depend on your ability to conform to an ideal, which moreover is
SOCIETY’S IDEAL
NOT YOURS
Start by identifying the expectations that make you feel this way, analyze them, where do they come from? Why do you feel like it’s your responsibility to fill in all these boxes? Get used to identifying these injustices embedded in this system and have the automatism to discern your own needs and those imposed on you, then you will better understand the dysfunctions when you are faced with this unpleasant feeling of “being too much or not enough’, it will help you and help other women <3
Awareness that imperfection is a proof of authenticity, and that it belongs to every human. No one on this earth is capable of being the best in all areas AND HAPPILY the multiplicity, the variety of women, their passions, their skills, their qualities, their defects, the singularity of our hearts and our souls form a whole that connects us all among ourselves, it is the beauty of our communities.
Love us, support us and accept us in our integrality, your uniqueness to all of us, women, forms a magnificent blend
All the forms of sensitivity that we are and feel, it is the beauty of life, especially :
THE BEAUTY OF WOMAN
Be true to yourself. Authenticity is your greatest strength in the fight against societal expectations. By being authentic, you inspire others to question norms and embrace their own truth <3
OUR FIGHT IS NOT OVER
